TIME, ATTENTION, MEANINGFeb 8, 2026
Why Time Feels So Slippery These Days
You ever notice how time feels weird? It's like, sometimes it drags, and other times it just disappears. Maybe we're all just living in our own time zones, where reality bends and stretches differently for everyone.

Mitch
Reality Designer
2min
You know how sometimes you feel like your morning coffee just evaporated and it's suddenly night? Time perception is wild. More than ever, time doesn’t seem to operate in the neat, linear fashion we’ve been told about in school. I mean, we’re all supposedly operating on this 24-hour cycle, but it feels like the internet and the pace of life have shredded that into these unpredictable chunks of chaos.
And it’s not just about being busy or lazy; it’s deeper. It's in the way we engage with the world. Our interconnected reality is flooded with distractions and connections that compress time, but also stretch it out unpredictably. The moment you unlock your phone, you’re entering a different dimension where minutes don’t just tick away, they evaporate. You know how you scroll through TikTok or Insta, and suddenly what you thought was just a five-minute break becomes an hour-long plunge into a neverending content stream? That’s time slipping through your fingers.
But why does this happen? It’s not just about mindlessly scrolling either. It's about consciousness and perception. Consciousness influences how we experience reality, altering our perception of time. Ever find that time drags in one class but flies in another? That’s consciousness tweaking time’s flow, bending it around our interests and attention levels. When you're deep into something you love or hate, time morphs. Same 60 minutes, but it’s felt entirely differently based on your state of mind.
I remember chatting with my friend Mike last month at that coffee shop on 5th. We were laughing about how our high school days felt like forever, and now entire months can go missing in what seems like a blink. I mean, is it just age or is something functional changing within us? It seems like our responsibilities and expectations have reshaped how we interact with time. As we take on more, the value and weight of time shifts.
The internet makes this more complex. It's like living multiple lives, all competing for our attention. What’s real, what’s now, and what’s important is all a bit jumbled. Attention economy plays a massive role here, constantly pulling us in a thousand directions. While you might physically be in line for coffee, mentally you might be tackling an email or planning your next post. Your body stays, but your consciousness stretches.
Technology doesn’t just alter time; it also alters our relationship with it. We’re constantly pinged by emails, notifications, and pings that fracture our concentration. Multi-tasking, once heralded as the pinnacle of productivity, often just results in a fractured sense of now. There’s that myth about how our favorite innovators can multi-task their way to success, but maybe it’s less about juggling more and more about focusing better.

You could say our attention span resembles a slot machine now, pull the lever and who knows what sensory overload you'll encounter. Each pull doesn't just subtract from time; it warps it. The attention economy knows we're susceptible, and it milks this for all it's worth, leaving us dazed in a temporal circus.
So what do we do? Can we even change this without unplugging entirely? It’s not realistic to escape entirely. We live in the world, not outside it. But maybe it's about renegotiating our contracts with time. Maybe it’s about deciding what moments deserve our fullest attention and which ones can afford to fade like background noise.
Time isn’t just a passive backdrop, it’s the stage on which our consciousness performs its most intricate dances. Each moment is a decision: to engage, to disengage, to refocus.
Let's dive into the philosophy of this for a sec. When you think about existence and what it means to truly live, time becomes a key player. Is it just a measurement tool or is it more of a psychological construct that’s deeply tied to our experiences? It varies. What if the way we design our reality impacts how we perceive the clock’s ticking?
Imagine a world where we control time by altering our state of mind, a la lucid dreaming but while awake. Lucid dreaming, being aware that you're dreaming while in the dream, shows us it's possible to manipulate time's flow, at least subjectively. Similar to how a dream can stretch minutes into hours, maybe there's a way to train our conscious perception to regulate how we feel time in waking life.

Or maybe it’s like physics suggests, time isn’t linear or singular. Maybe every moment holds infinite possibilities, and we’re constantly making choices that carve out one potential future from all the rest. Generative AI, virtual reality, and other tech disruptors echo this idea, simulating realities where time can be paused, rewound, and fast-forwarded.
For builders and creators, this manipulation of time can be a powerful tool. Your breakthrough isn’t about adding more hours, it’s about redesigning how you use the time you already have. Creativity blooms not from stress but from intentional engagement with your environment, a practice of focusing deeply on the here and now rather than juggling hours like flaming torches.
But let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Time is also deeply personal. Culturally, our perception of time is shaped by societal norms and traditions. What's considered urgent or leisurely in one culture might be seen entirely differently in another. It's not just a personal journey but also a shared experience. Cultural shifts play a huge role in our collective sense of time.
Ever notice how some people always seem to be in sync, while others are constantly misaligned with the clock? Cultural narratives and shared stories bind us to collective timelines, but they also allow for deviations. Global connectivity challenges these narratives, forcing us into a new understanding of time as both personal and universal.

Time is less of a strict ruler and more of an elastic band, stretching and contracting depending on the forces applied, both external and internal. Understanding this can lead us to a place where we’re not just surviving time but actually crafting our relationship with it.
What if the next big thing isn't about hacking time, but building a system that honors its fluidity? Imagine a system design that accounts for human intricacies and consciousness, embracing the inefficiencies that make us beautifully unpredictable. This could be a radical realignment of priorities, focusing less on faster, more on meaningful interactions.
As we shift our focus towards designing a more harmonious relationship with time, where does this leave us? Will we ever be able to control it, or is the journey simply about coming to terms with its ever-changing mood? There’s no tidy conclusion here, just a series of explorations and experiments to undertake.
